Psychology and Language

Here is a collection of musings that relate to the mind. More specifically: language, psychology, personality, and intelligence.

How to Use the Expectancy Theory of Motivation to Set Better Goals
The Expectancy Theory of Motivation offers key insights on goal setting for both organizations and individuals. Let's discover how it works.
Intellectualization: The Danger of Using Logic to Block Emotions
Do you ever think your way out of difficult emotions rather than feel them? In psychology this is known as intellectualization. Let's explore what it entails.
Jhené Aiko 2Fish Quote - My Reflection on an Excerpt from the Book
Below is a quote from Jhené Aiko's Poetry Book, 2Fish, that is both moving and beautiful. Here's a moment of reflection on the words in the excerpt and the meaning they convey.
How Adopting a Third Person Perspective Will Change Your Life
As much as you are the main character in your life, you should also be an observer. Here are the benefits of adopting a third person perspective on your life.
Spontaneous Trait Transference - The Reason Why Gossip Often Backfires
Let’s talk about spontaneous trait transference - an interesting psychological basis for avoiding all forms of trash talk about others.
What is Meaning-Making? 3 Powerful Lessons From a Holocaust Survivor
What do you see when you look at the world? Let's explore the topic of meaning making and the impact it has, and can potentially have on our lives.
DEAR MAN DBT: A Simple Yet Very Powerful Communication Technique
DEAR MAN DBT is a powerful communication technique that is based on dialectical behavior therapy. Let's discuss what it entails and why it works.
What is Your Locus of Control? Your Answer Determines Everything...
Have you ever heard of the term "Locus of Control?" In this blog post, we'll be defining what locus of control is, and how this concept can change your life.
The Best Jobs for People with Anxiety
It can be a challenge to find suitable work when you struggle with anxiety. Here are the best jobs for people with anxiety that are relatively low-stress.
How You Do Anything is How You Do Everything - What It Means
Have you ever heard the phrase "how you do anything is how you do everything"? Let's unpack this quote and examine its meaning for you and I.
5 Reasons Why You Should Catch Flights Not Feelings
Perhaps you've heard the phrase "catch flights not feelings". Let's talk about what it means and why it can be a good strategy.
What is the Opposite of Love? Why It's Not What You Think...
Today I'd like to pose a slightly unusual question: What is the opposite of love? Is it hate...or something else? Let's talk about it.
10 Questions for Self Reflection That Everyone Should Ask Themselves
Looking to become more self-aware? Here are 10 questions for self reflection that will help you on your personal development journey.
9 Things You’ll Understand If You’re a Really Observant Person
How observant are you? Here are 9Things You'll Understand If You're a Really Observant Person. Things only incredibly observant ones tend to relate to...
The 8 Executive Functioning Skills That Every Child Needs
What are executive functioning skills, and why is understanding the role of these skills vital for parents and educators? Let's discuss it.
What Makes a Calming Personality? 7 Unique Traits of Calm People
What contributes to a calming personality? Here are 7 qualities that incredibly calm people typically possess.
7 Metacognitive Strategies That Will Transform the Way You Learn
Metacognition - or thinking about the way you think - can transform the way you learn. Let’s explore key metacognitive strategies and how we can apply them.
The Fear of Crying | Why People are Scared to Cry, But Why You Should
Are you scared to cry? Do you ever hold back your tears or hide them when you're in front of other people? Let's explore the fear of crying.
How to Turn Your Personality Weaknesses into Strengths (With Examples)
Even the most persistent personality traits can be upgraded. Here's how to turn your personality weaknesses into strengths, with Myers-Briggs examples.
Should Statements - Beware of the Tyranny of the "Shoulds"!
How often do you use "should" statements? What is the tyranny of the shoulds? Let's discuss what "shoulds" are and how they may impact you in unexpected ways.
What are Teachable Moments? 7 Awesome Examples from Everyday Life
Teachable moments are surprise opportunities to bring knowledge alive. Let's discuss what they entail and how we can use them to be better teachers.
Intrapersonal Intelligence - A Letter to All My Introspective Geeks
How well do you know yourself? Today, we'll be talking about the topic of intrapersonal intelligence, and how it makes you see the world a little differently.
Self-Rejection: What It Is and How to Overcome It
Self-rejection is one of the worst types of rejection because it starts in your mind. Let’s discuss what self-rejection is and how to overcome it for good.
Extraverted Intuition - Life From the Perspective of an ENFP
What's it like to have extraverted intuition as a dominant function? Today, I'll be sharing my perspective on the inner world of NP types, as an ENFP.